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A Gratitude Letter to 2024
The ending of the year has me reminiscing on the past 12 months and things I’ve lost, gained, learned, and can bring into the new year. I...

CJM
Dec 31, 20245 min read


How to Stay Sane and Stress-Free During the Holidays: Charty's Mini Holiday Survival Guide
Merry almost Christmas and Happy Holidays…it’s almost time to see family and regress back to teenagers! Oh, whoops sorry no, I mean go back home. Bring on the family drama! If you’re lucky enough to be able to spend it with family, friends, or friends who are family, you must be so excited. (And are probably dreading it a little) It’s a special time of year filled with creating memories, cozy nights, and slowing down. That’s what I’m most excited for, the ability to slow down

CJM
Dec 20, 20244 min read


Unveiling the Magic of SoulCycle: A Love Letter to the Dark Room
When I first moved to Boston in 2019, I was so lonely. Like brutally lonely. I didn’t know anyone or anything about Boston, and I had just moved here for my master’s program. I was struggling. I called my dad one of the first weeks I moved here, and he suggested I go to a SoulCycle class to get out of my own head. I had been once in 2017 in New York City with friends and loved it. Well, lo and behold, I took his advice and ended up at my second ever class in Chestnut Hill, ta

CJM
Dec 10, 20243 min read


Evolution of Friendships in Our 20s: Who Gets a Front Row Seat?
Hey! Can you meet tomorrow after work? No? When are you free next? How’s your job? Have you heard from that guy? How’s your wedding planning? Did you go to that workout? Did you buy a house? Are your parents healthy? Are you okay? I miss you. I wish we could spend more time together. Sound familiar? Friendships are hard in our 20s. Have we talked about that yet? Full time jobs, kids, husbands, weddings, new cities. It becomes so hard to manage these different relationships. I

CJM
Dec 3, 20244 min read


Charty's First Solo Thanksgiving: A Tale of Cleaning Gloves and Rum
Happy Thanksgiving peeps! I hope you’re all full of turkey and pie. I am currently drinking Kraken rum and eating pie out of the dish! And doing a lot of reflecting—I have so much to be grateful for. First, thank you to all my readers. Whether you’re a consistent reader, or just dropping by, this blog means so much to me, and I’m grateful you love it. I could go on for paragraphs about how lucky I am between my city, my family, home, friends, and more, but for now I’ll just s

CJM
Nov 28, 20244 min read


Wisdom for College Students from a Former Siena Icon
I’m late to the game now in November, but I wanted to share advice for college students. I recently started mentoring a student at Siena...

CJM
Nov 19, 20244 min read


Love Me... Don't Leave Me: My Journey with Estrangement and Healing
I wanted to speak on something close to my heart—estrangement. I feel like so many people are unaware the impact that family estrangement has had on my life. It's the reason I got into my field of social work and chased my passion of adolescent therapy. It’s something that is more common than we think, and it’s highly stigmatized by society. We live in a world where families and relationships are most always romanticized on media, making us feel isolated. Estrangement has tak

CJM
Nov 12, 202410 min read


How Barry's Bootcamp Changed My Perspective on Running
This morning, I hit 300 classes at Barry’s Bootcamp. I am so proud of myself and grateful for the gifts my journey at Barry’s has given me. If you do any sort of fitness class, you know how exciting the milestones are! Barry’s is a 50-minute HIIT style class that combines strength and cardio exercises. These classes take place in their studio called the Red Room, which consist of red mood lighting and loud music. Classes usually consists of 12–15-minute running and floor rou

CJM
Nov 5, 20246 min read


How to Navigate Your Career Path: My Advice on Finding Your Dreams
Recently I got a request to talk about advice for career paths. More specifically, advice on choosing one. I love this question- and I love that people trusted me enough to ask! Business Professional Charty making her debut... First off, I’ll start by saying half the battle is sitting in this journey and questioning it. To admit you're unsure and trying to figure things out. We live in a world where everyone seems to have their shit together, and to question or be unsure of w

CJM
Nov 1, 20246 min read


How Can Instagram Ads Contribute to Shopping Addictions?
Guys. Help! I can’t stop online shopping. Yes, I should’ve been cast in Confessions of a Shopaholic , and I have so much Old Navy super...

CJM
Oct 29, 20244 min read


Finding a Therapist is like...Finding a Boyfriend?
Finding a therapist is like finding a boyfriend. I said what I said! Endless hours spent sifting through options online to pick the one...

CJM
Oct 25, 20245 min read


Exploring Boston: An In-Depth Tour with your Favorite Local
I love Boston. We all know I'm one of the most iconic locals here, and I love getting to share that with others. Going on almost 6 years...

CJM
Oct 22, 20248 min read


Inside Charty's Purse: A Peek at Her Skincare and Makeup Must-Haves
Helloooo friends and lovers, Welcome to my purse! Other than no cash, old lip-gloss, receipts, and cigarettes (KIDDING!), I wanted to...

CJM
Oct 18, 20244 min read


Are Rest Days Essential for Optimal Fitness Results? Charty's Perspective
Many moons ago when I was new to the fitness world, I never wanted to hear the dreaded R word. Recovery. Recovery felt like this negative...

CJM
Oct 15, 20244 min read


Are Meal Kit Deliveries Worth It? Charty's Review Revealed!
As a Boston girly who works later into the night, I have used meal delivery services to make dinner quicker and more convenient....

CJM
Oct 12, 20246 min read


Standards vs. Disappointments: How to Set Healthy Expectations and Honor Your Self-Worth
Hi sweet friends, I recently finished Hailey Page Mae’s “Stop People Pleasing: And Find your Power.” It is a must read for anyone wanting...

CJM
Oct 11, 20244 min read


Surviving Hurricane Ian: Lessons Learned from Heartbreak and Devastation
Hurricane Helene has recently pummeled down on Florida, Georgia, and the Carolinas, devastating so many. My heart goes out to the...

CJM
Oct 7, 20247 min read


How Rediscovering a Passion Can Transform Your Life: My Journey with Skiing
Growing up, my siblings and I were put on skis at a young age. My mom grew up skiing, and encouraged my dad to try it, which led to a...

CJM
Oct 4, 20245 min read


Valuable Life Lessons We Can Learn from Charty's Journey
I think it’s so important to learn from other’s experiences. You figure out what works, what doesn’t, what you can tolerate. And what...

CJM
Sep 30, 20243 min read


Hot Yoga Fail!
Four days before I started my new job, I fell down the stairs and my ankle snapped in half (not really but let me be dramatic). This meant I needed to brainstorm different exercise modalities, due to not being able to run or spin for a month or so. I ended up doing a trial period at a yoga studio in Brookline, and naturally the only classes offered at 6am were hot yoga. I figured I’d be fine with it and went to try it, despite disliking yoga. I brought my $12 Target mat and w

CJM
Sep 27, 20243 min read
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